Showing posts with label husband. Show all posts
Showing posts with label husband. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 18, 2019

Father’s Day "Camping" Trip

For Father's Day Mark wanted to get away, unplug as much as possible, have some much needed family time and just relax. He found a few cabins on line but most were already booked. And months in advance too! He found an older cabin for rent that was just big enough for us, out in the middle of nowhere and for a decent price too.



A gravel road lead us to the cabin. To be fair, it was pretty much all dirt and gravel roads leading up to the cabin. That was fine by us! Kicking up a little dirt and gravel never bothers us!



Our quaint cabin for the weekend was about 30-40 minutes from our home in Rogers to Garfield, AR. The cabin was pretty secluded in the woods, with one neighbor a little way from us. We had electricity, a/c, water, toilets, showers, direct TV....so we were hardly roughing it.


But we were still tucked in the woods with all the critter and bugs too. Even though we had all of the comforts of home, we did spend most of our time outside. I don't mind this way of "camping" one bit!


Inside the house there was a kitchen with table, family room, 2 bathrooms, 3 bedrooms, a washer and dryer and a wrap around fenced in deck.




Another side of the room, a sleepy Will is all cozy by the fireplace. The fireplace wasn't on! It was too hot outside. 


Above the living room, was the view from the loft (one of the bedrooms). The kids loved the loft because they could look down and spy on us. As most kids would love to do. I'm surprised they weren't throwing this from up there. I know my sisters and I would have been playing some sort of dropping game. 


To get to the loft, the kids had to climb this ladder from the kitchen and squeeze in. It made me a little nervous because the ladder wasn't attached. Plus, you had to be pencil slim to get up though that hole. Needless to say, Mark and I didn't go up. Well, our heads fit through the hole! Ha! Mary Kate lovingly referred to it as the Laura Ingalls bedroom. How cute and smart is she to notice that? Remember how Laura and Mary had to climb a ladder on the show to get to bed? 


The cabin was not just fully furnished with all of the typical spoiled luxuries, but it also had cookware, plates, glasses and silverware, towels, a coffee maker, toilet paper, laundry soap, and even firewood to burn. And best part was, we were able to bring the dogs with us! Duchess hated it there. Duchess has major anxiety and doesn't deal well with change, so she wasn't happy during our stay. Even on anxiety medication, she was still a hot mess. But Stella loved it of course. 



Stella mostly loved going on the boat dock with the family to fish. She probably wanted to snatch the fish to eat herself, that's why she liked it! Ha! Mary Kate would take the dogs everywhere with us if she could. She loves having her pups with her all the time.



The deck was peaceful to spend time on. I read, sipped Natural State Beer from our up and coming brewery & taproom, watched our children explore and thanked God for this time with my family.


We always take our favorite beer with us! I can't wait till we are able to share this with everybody this November when we open in Rogers!

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From the deck, it led us down the boat dock. We don't own a boat and really didn't feel like renting one, so we just fished off of it. But don't let this picture fool you. It wasn't a far or steep walk down to the boat dock. It was super close!




Here's the view from the bottom of where the boat dock is located. See, it's not far at all.


The boat dock was large with a table and chairs. The kids spent a lot of time here! Probably the most time. They really enjoyed fishing and just being on the water.


However, walking the plank to get up to the boat dock was a bit of a balancing act. They could have done better than this. But we rolled with and made it work for us. Nobody fell in and the board didn't break.



The kids did fish, as I mentioned already. But they just did this...Mark put the worm on the hooks, took the fish off the hook and all that jazz. The kids just wanted to reel them in...and I get that, cause that's my preference with fishing too! A Daddy's job is never done!


Here's Mary Kate needing Dad's help reeling in a BIG one! We couldn't wait to see what she caught!


And here she is with the catch of the day!! A branch! It sure did put up a fight too! She was laughing so much at this. We all were laughing!


Then Will caught this guy shortly after. It's no branch and he was glad it wasn't. We asked if he wanted to cook any of the fish and he wasn't interested in doing that. He just liked catching and releasing.


Then Mary Kate was redeemed and caught an actual fish! Look at that face!!! Oh be still my heart, her little face expression is the best!


Pure happiness. She was game for all the fishing but much like her little brother, she didn't want to eat them. Catch and release all day. That's fine, cleaning fish is chore.


Our evenings were spent around the fire pit making s'mores, talking life, telling stories and making up stories. I referred to Will as our little man of the woods because he was all over the place. I'm surprised he wasn't covered head to toe in ticks with all of the exploring he did. 


On our last night, Matt, came up to see us and celebrate Father's Day with his Dad. He even spent the night too! Mark is such an amazing Dad with a big heart. Matt is a lot like Mark and it makes me proud that he makes time for his Dad. Between very long hours at his job and a girlfriend, Matt does what he can to be there for his family. Him being there for these moments is the best gift he could ever give to any of us. Especially to his Dad.


This Dad's kids are growing up so fast and these small moments are so important. One day our kids will marry and have families of their own. The few moments we get as just US, are few and far between now. As for Ryan, we don't see or hear much from him. He doesn't call or come over to see his only living bio-parent, me or any of his siblings and it's very sad. We get a text for our birthdays and holidays.  And that's all we get. But in the end, he's the one missing out. Matt makes up for a lot of what Ryan fails to do. And again, it means a lot to all of us that Matt gives us his time. I only wish Ryan would do the same.  Especially for his Dad at least. Maybe one day. Maybe. 


I love being married to Mark. He's my world. He's handsome, smart, funny, talented, sweet, kind, giving and more than I deserve. It was important that this Father's Day was special to him. We all did our best to spoil him, love him and let him know how blessed we are to have him. I'm so amazed that God choose me to do life with this man. So blessed to have been able to have babies with him and build a life with him. He's the Dad I always hoped my kids would have.


Mark has done an amazing job being a Dad. Children never realize just how much their Dad's do and sacrifice for their families. I know I didn't as a kid either. But as we grow up and have families of our own, then we are able to see what our Dad's have done for us and just how much they love us. 


I hope everyone had a great Father's Day and let their Dad's know they are loved. I hope nobody takes this time with their Dad's for granted. Time is not promised. Love your husband's, love your Dad's and teach your children to do the same. Dad's matter more than they are given credit for. 


























Sunday, January 27, 2019

Birthday Wishes

This weekend we celebrated Mark’s 48th Birthday. One of Mark's Birthday wishes was to go see the country bad, Midland, in Tulsa Oklahoma. So we loaded up the family and went to Tulsa to celebrate with our best couple friend, Tom and Rachel. When we arrived to Tulsa, Tom and Rachel had a few fun surprises awaiting our arrival. As always they go above and beyond any expectations we might have. And they always make us feel at home by treating us like family.

Bedside laughs and treats for Mark and Me
Fun treats awaiting the kids when we arrived
After we got the kids all settled in, Mark's next Birthday wish was to eat at our favorite Irish Pub, Kilkenny's.  If you ever get a chance to go eat at Kilkenny's, you must go! It never disappoints. The atmosphere alone takes you to Ireland, and the food is just amazing! We love this place and always stop in for a pint of Guinness when we visit Tulsa.
This photo is a little dim, but it's a gorgeous restaurant!


Guiness is a must when you visit any Irish Pub

Cheers to the Birthday Boy!
Once we filled our bellies, it was time for us to grab an Uber and go see Midland at Cain's Ballroom. Cain's is like an old school honky-tonk, that's reminiscent of the Grand Ole Opry. It's old, beautiful and has a bbq joint inside. It smelled and looked country, we loved it! And so did everyone else!! It was crowded but we had so much fun!

Cain's Ballroom is where a lot of top artists perform at.

Walls lined with so many acts from past to present.

Midland 

They wasted no time and played hit after hit! GREAT concert!

After the concert it was time to head back to Tom and Rachel's where we sang a Happy Birthday song to Mark, just after midnight. We brought buntinis from Arkansas at Nothing Bunt Cakes and wished our Birthday boy a good night's rest, because tomorrow was going to be a busy day!
Buntinis from Nothing Bunt Cakes are amazing! The best bunt cakes ever!

An early morning Happy Birthday to my sweet husband.

The next morning we needed food...Mark's wish of not having a hang over did not go as planned, HA! Tom and Rachel took us to a diner called Metro and it was soooo delicious! Again, the atmosphere was amazing. It was very much modern meets the past. We drank bloody mary's, coffee and mimosas and ate some delicious food!

A spicy chicken biscuit with strawberries and a mimosa hit the spot!

The Birthday boy with his best friend, Tom.

This beautiful young lady was our sitter while we were out at the concert. She has the sweetest heart! We just love her! 

Mark's birthday wish for the rest of the day was to go on brewery tours. Or as he likes to call it 'market research.' We started out visiting a few breweries together before we decided to break off into groups, because Rachel and I were still recovering from the night before. So while the men went to tour more breweries for Mark's birthday, Rachel, me and kids went out for lunch and back to her house for a movie and a much needed nap. 

You know we love our brewery tours! The kids especially love collecting stickers from every brewery tour we take.


Mary Kate following along, listening to her Dad talk all things brewery at Pippins Taproom.

Nothings Left Brew Co was gorgeous inside! 

A delicious sample of beers for us to try!

Family friendly breweries are always the BEST!

Our little artist making pretty pictures while we drink to Daddy's birthday!

This girl never forgets a birthday and was the first one to wish her Daddy Happy Birthday

We have been long time supporters and friends of Marshall Brewing Company. It's so exciting to see them grow!

Our little brewery man


Playing games at Marshall Brewing Co Taproom
Mark's final Birthday wish of the night was to eat dinner at Siegi's Sausage Factory. Siegi's specializes in making housemade and homestyle German-Austrian sausages. With Mark opening a brewery that specializes in German style lagers, it's no surprise that he also loves German food. And Siegi's has an amazing German menu for the whole family to enjoy.

Sausages, sauerkraut and beer for dinner! Plus they serve pretzel bread as an appetizer before the meal. YUM!

Bread Pudding for Mark's Birthday dessert
After dinner we went back to Tom and Rachel's where Mark and Tom fell fast asleep from their day of brewery touring and eating a rich, full meal. I think most of Mark's Birthday wishes came true. Now if only our own brewery would just open, then I know his ultimate dream would be come true!

I probably don't say it enough to you, Mark, but I am so proud of you. You always have a smile on your face, a song in your heart and you work so hard for this family. You put everyone else's needs before your own and I'm so glad to see you finally doing something for yourself by opening Natural State Beer Co. You are my best friend, the love of my life and every single day you make me smile and laugh. You are everything I prayed for in a spouse and I am honored that God chose me to spend the rest of my life with you. You are a blessing beyond words and I hope you had a wonderful birthday and that all of your Birthday wishes came true. I love you more than life itself.